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To Get Started, Draw a Tik-Tok-Toe chart. Then complete the calculations.

PART 1

(Complete this first)

IDENTITY NUMBER (Birth Day) - How You See Yourself Internally,

  • If born on days 1-11: Your Identity = that number

  • If born on days 12-31: Add digits together, reduce to 11 or less

  • Example: Born on 23rd → 2 + 3 = 5 

LESSON NUMBER (Birth Month) - Your Growth Challenge

  • Jan=1, Feb=2, Mar=3, Apr=4, May=5, Jun=6, Jul=7, Aug=8, Sep=9, Oct=10, Nov=11, Dec=3 (12=1+2=3)

FOUNDATION NUMBER (Identity + Lesson) - What Supports You In Life

  • Add Identity + Lesson, reduce to 11 or less

  • Remember: Never reduce 10→1 or 11→2

Natural Gift (Last 2 digits of birth year) - Your Gift At Birth

  • Take last 2 digits, add together, reduce to 11 or less

  • Example: Born 1987 → 87 → 8 + 7 = 15 → 1 + 5 = 6

Cultivated Gift (Full birth year) - The Gift You Open Through Experience

  • Add all 4 digits of birth year, reduce to 11 or less

  • Example: 1987 → 1 + 9 + 8 + 7 = 25 → 2 + 5 = 7

PART 2

Integrated Gift (Natural + Cultivated) - The Gift That Emerges 

  • Add Natural + Cultivated, reduce to 11 or less

Projection (Identity + Natural Gift) - How People See You

  • Add Identity + Natural Gift, reduce to 11 or less

Intention (Lesson + Cultivated Gift) - How You Want To Be Seen

  • Add Lesson + Cultivated Gift, reduce to 11 or le

PURPOSE (Birth Month + Birth Day + Birth Year) - Point of Service and Fulfillment

  • Add Birth Month + Birth Day + Birth Year, reduce to 11 or less

  • Simply put a plus sign between each number and add together

  • Example: March 15, 2013; 3+1+5+2+0+1+3=15; 1+5=6

CONGRATULATIONS!

You now have your personal blueprint—something most people go their whole lives without. Let's break down what it actually means.

Your birth date isn't your destiny—it's your operating manual. And you've been ignoring the troubleshooting section.

  1. Why Your Relationships Keep Feeling the Same: Your chart shows how you merge with people—do you lose yourself, push them away, or expect them to complete you? Kairos reveals the pattern so you stop dating the same person in different bodies.

  2. You're Not Lost—You're Just Ignoring Your Career Cheat Code: Grinding hard but still feeling stuck? Your Superpowers position shows the natural gifts you're probably underusing while overworking your weak spots. Your chart reveals what you should actually be leaning into.

  3. The Gap Between How They See You and Who You Are: Your Projection is the energy you broadcast without trying—people might see "confident leader" when you feel like a mess inside. Kairos shows you the disconnect so you stop performing and start showing up real.

  4. Your Purpose Isn't One Big Answer—It's a Formula: Purpose in Kairos isn't some vague 'follow your passion' thing. It's calculated from how your Identity, Gifts, and Lesson combine. It shows you the specific work only you are wired to do.

  5. Why You Keep Self-Sabotaging in the Same Spot: Your Lesson number is the thing you can't see clearly about yourself—the recurring challenge you keep blaming on external circumstances. Once you name the pattern, you stop being blindsided by it.

This is just the surface. Follow along as we decode what your specific numbers actually mean, the roles they play in your life, and how they create a story that is uniquely you.